by Christel | Dec 31, 2022 | Podcast
Do you believe a fear or a vow from a past life can slow you down of stop you from living your purpose is this life?
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for women and empaths to quit people-pleasing, reclaim power, and create a pleasure-led legacy without apology.
It’s 2013 and I stand with quiet strength in a room full of heart-centered women entrepreneurs. We have gathered for a two-day transformational business mastermind. I am at the front of the room in the “hot seat,” while my colleagues sit comfortably on couches in an elegant, comfortable setting.
“What will happen if you are visible? What will happen if the world sees your full power? Don’t think ― just answer,” my mentor commands.
“I will be killed.”
I stand between worlds with one foot in present time and the other in a past life. A woman in the room gasps and tears stream down my cheeks. I speak of being burned at the stake as empowered woman and healer.
“I am no longer afraid of being killed because I know that my essence, my soul cannot be destroyed. They tortured and killed the community of women healers that I led. They made me watch as each one of my soul sisters died. I begged for them to spare my sisters and just kill me. I died with every woman before they destroyed my body. I made a vow that I would never again put the lives of my sisters in jeopardy. I committed to traveling alone: When they find and kill me the next time, no one else will die because of me.”
My heart breaks open as the scene unfolds in vivid detail. Both my present reality and my past life as revolutionary leader are so tangible, and powerfully connected. I don’t have proof that I have lived other lives, yet this vision forces me to resolve this past-life saga in this very lucid moment of now.
I want to crumble, to give up and disappear. My shadow, that part of me I have been unwilling ― unable ― to embrace, is demanding that I recognize its power. I have spent years hiding and suppressing the magnitude of the love, fear, and power inside me. I am keenly aware of the great potential that lies in alchemizing these emotions. I see my self-imposed shackles with crystal clarity.
For the past 32 years, I have been a professional healer and artist. But until that auspicious day, I had been playing small and staying safe, allowing fear of persecution to stop me. I justified my circumstances and convinced myself that the level of service I was providing in my healing arts business was enough – that I could fulfill my soul purpose without stepping too far outside my comfort zone.
A few years ago, I was called to awaken greater potential as not only a healer but as a revolutionary leader of healers. I resisted that inner voice, because I did not feel ready to step into this role of empowering women. I would tell myself that someday I would be ready, someday …
In late 2008, I made the commitment to get the mentoring and business training necessary to take my business to the next level. Out of that commitment came a series of synchronicities that eventually brought me to that gathering, where, steeped in a cauldron of sisterly support, the story continues …
I am being confronted by my mentor in present time, and I can feel the strength of the invisible field that keeps me from stepping into the leadership role I know I was born to fill. Although I want to support women to claim their power as fully activated healers, that outdated “never again” promise keeps me stagnant.
She stands before me, extending a deeply compassionate yet unwavering invitation: “The women from that life are looking for you lead them now. Will you show up for them?”
I feel the strength of her call, beckoning me to unleash the potency of my mission, to serve as a beacon of light that others will follow.
In a flash I see that my persistent refusal to show up in my full splendor (cloaked as valiant loyalty to a sacred vow) is the most destructive and selfish choice I could make. My resistance to lead dissolves in an instant. The old victim story of fear and persecution literally vanishes as I stand in my power: “Yes, I will show up for them.”
The victim story is only part of the truth. In other lives I have perpetrated hunting and kill*ng. An unacknowledged aspect of my soul is capable of destruction. I know in every moment we are free to choose to create or destroy life. In order to break the cycle of victim > rescuer > perpetrator, I must face the aspects inside me that are capable of such darkness.
The room dissolves and my mentor and I are dressed in priestess robes in a forest clearing where the past is completed and the present moment merges with a future time.
She says, “now is the first time in thousands of years that you are safe to reclaim your place of power. It is time to take on your sacred role as a leader in the sisterhood. You are protected and guided. Will you reclaim your place of power?”
“Yes, I will. Thank you.”
My mentor reminds me of my mother, this potent moment of her inviting me into my power heals my mother’s betrayal while activating a mystical path into my future. I know in my bones that my ability to create and destroy will be used in service to love and life. In the moment I claimed my power and released the old beliefs, I ended the victim cycle that had undermined my power as a woman and leader. I integrate the light and the dark to embrace all of me and activate my full power.
My life purpose of guiding women to reach their highest potential is unfolding with ease. I empower heart-centered women entrepreneurs to activate their healing gifts and make money while making a positive difference.
Together we create magic, beauty, financial abundance, and healing for ourselves and our communities.
We are activating soul-centered prosperity in life, love, and business, while reestablishing the sisterhood in present time.
Love or Fear Hypnosis Journey
It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
For the first time ever in my coaching business I’m offering a single sessions, called a Desire Session. The focus is to discover why manifesting isn’t working for you and Access the Creative Power of Desire to Build your Pleasure-Led Legacy
It’s a one-to-one phone session that includes: Pleasure Body Breath + Sensual Hypnosis + Akashic Recode + Recording.
This is not a sales call it’s the most exciting evolution of my work and I would love to share it with you. You can book your desire session at www.DesireSession.com
If you are interested to explore options to co-creating with me for 3 months or longer please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
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I believe in you and the magic power of your soul. I am sending you so much love!
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by Christel | Dec 21, 2022 | Podcast
How to transform pain into power. This episode is my perspective and tools that I have found helpful in my journey of physical, mental, and emotional pain.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for women and empaths to quit people-pleasing, reclaim power, and create a pleasure-led legacy without apology.
Being human is a full spectrum experience. We will experience moments of incredible happiness, connection, love, joy, peace. We will also experience intense times of distress, struggle, darkness, illness, death of a loved one or a family.
I focus my work on your pleasure-led legacy, learning to navigate physical, mental, and emotional pain is essential in this exploration. While there are many teachings out there to think positive thoughts or be happy, that can bypass pain.
My approach is to acknowledge there is great pain and suffering in the world, and then choose what we do with the pain, struggle, suffering.
By embracing that struggle, the first thing to do is to breathe and come into the present moment as much as possible.
Expand your breath gently, without forcing. Anchor yourself in the environment that you are in.
Notice the sights, sounds, smells, textures, and tastes. It helps bring your attention more fully into the moment. In times of intensity, often the mind can hijack your experience and pull in extreme stress, distress, or trauma from the past.
While stressful things happened, the past and most important thing is to come into the moment, to breathe, to feel your body, even if it’s in pain.
Feel your emotions, even if they’re challenging.
I’m going to move forward with the remainder of this podcast from the perspective that you are in a safe environment, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually,
Come into the present moment by feeling more can amplify the intensity, of intense thoughts, emotions, or physical pain. Yet by breathing we can move out of a stress response.
The stress response is a natural response to stress, it is built in.
You don’t get to decide whether or not you have one. What you get to decide is how you respond to the stress.
My teaching helps you to come into the present to be with what is happening. If it is emotional distress, acknowledge the feeling. I feel sad. I feel depressed. I feel anxiety, I feel helpless. I feel powerless.
As you notice, I included, “I feel,” which is very important.
Instead of saying, I am hopeless, powerless or…
This is one fundamental way of shifting the experience of being able to turn pain into reclaiming a sense of power by feeling your feelings and noticing what is happening in your mind.
The power of the mind is extraordinary. It has created so much of the incredible things that we experience in humanity on earth right now. Yet also, the power of the mind can make things so much harder. It can make an experience of struggle a thousand times harder, depending upon what your mind is saying.
So it’s important to acknowledge the feelings, acknowledge the mental dialogue that’s happening in your mind. What is your mind telling you?
In times of intensity without training, the mind can go into what I would call the perpetrator or the bully, some people would call the villain.
It is part of the trauma triangle, which I have done many other episodes about the trauma triangle. There are 3 roles to play on the trauma triangle, victim, perpetrator, or rescuer.
In times of intensity, our own minds can become the perpetrator, being mean to ourselves. It can be self-attack, blaming, shaming, making wrong. It can be this incredible intensity that feels inescapable, right?
It’s coming from the inside and one way of turning this mental, emotional pain into power to change is by recognizing the emotions and mental dialogue by getting it out of your head and saying it out loud or writing it down.
I know that can seem challenging to do. You don’t want to give any energy to it. But, it’s like fighting a ghost.
The more that you can understand what your mind is saying to you, the more you can understand that loop that the mind gets stuck in when it’s feeling trapped or helpless or under intense stress.
The more we can understand what the story is that the mind is stuck in, then we can find ways of changing that story slowly and.
These practices are. Long-term strategies that absolutely work in support with whatever other support you are getting.
These are support tools to help you shift your experience to move out of feeling like a victim to your mental, emotional, or physical struggles and to support you to reclaim your power so you can shift your experience.
So getting clear on “I feel” and “the story I’m telling myself.” Again, it gives you some distance between the mind. When it’s in the perpetrator place, the bully, it can just declare things to be true.
As we move into physical sensations of pain all of these practices being able to see, feel, experience, the pain, whatever level it’s on, but also to be able to recognize there are other aspects of you.
So if there is a place in your physical body that feels pain to go into the pain. Feel it to gently breathe life energy into that part of your body.
Gently open the edges of where the physical pain lives, with the breath and with the power of attention. By moving your mind to a place where there’s physical pain in the body, it helps increase circulation, which moves more life force and oxygen to the area. It also can help reduce inflammation by moving out of a contracted state.
The physical aspect is breathing gently and moving gently, and being mindful of how your body is responding.
We talked about the perpetrator with the mental aspect, and the same is true for all levels of this is approaching yourself with kindness, care, compassion.
If you are with somebody who is deeply struggling, there can be this desire to save them from their suffering to rescue them. The R on VPR Triangle.
From my experience as both someone who has been through incredible intense tragedies in my life, but also someone who works with people and their struggles for a living the best thing that I can do in being with someone who’s struggling is to be with them, be beep present without trying to fix anything unless there is something that they’re specifically asking for that would help them.
You’re doing the same thing when it’s inside yourself, bringing your presence.
What I like to think of as my CEO self, the one who is in charge of everything, keeping that part in charge. Just like the CEO of a company understands what’s happening in the company, understands the employees are gonna have struggles, but the CEO stays in charge rather than letting a wounded part run the company or stop momentum moving forward.
The same thing is happening in your life. Okay, I’m really struggling right now, this is really hard and this wounded part of me is trying to hijack this whole situation and get me stuck in an emotional feedback loop or a downward mental spiral, or creating more physical pain by making choices that don’t support healing.
it’s important to recognize that your CEO self stays in charge. You could call that your infinite self, your higher self, whatever most resonates with you, and being open to the experience of all the parts.
The CEO self is never the perpetrator saying, “I don’t want to hear about your struggle. Just get back to work.”
Right? That’s a wounded or immature part. Staying in the CEO self, the CEO is able to hold the big picture and to also support in navigating the metaphorical ship of yourself through a storm, through the intensity.
If you were in a storm and the captain of a ship, if there was a crew member that was ill and down with a fever and hallucinating, you wouldn’t be like, “Hey, you should come steer the ship through this storm.”
But that’s often what happens when we give the power to direct and guide our life to a part that it is in deep pain and suffering mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, that is where things can go from bad to worse.
It is important to acknowledge the challenge, the suffering, the pain, yet keeping the CEO. In charge the executive function of your brain, which is a practice, right? Because when you go into fight or flight into a stress response even of please or freeze the survival part of your brain takes over.
Doing this practice of being able to feel pain in any way yet to keep your CEO self in charge, to acknowledge the pain, to validate the feelings, yet to make the best possible choices to navigate them.
Do these practices on a daily basis when it isn’t an extreme situation is the easiest way to make it a habit.
When you’re facing an incredibly stressful time that these practices are built, on acknowledging the emotions, validating the feelings, recognizing the story that the wounded mind is running, feeling physical pain, feeling spiritual pain, yet being able to stay in a, an empowered place to make the best possible choices.
This practice, doing this with yourself supports you in then being able to be with someone else who is struggling to be with them, and simply being with somebody in their pain, breathing with them.
Being with pain and suffering can make such a huge difference.
The last few years have amplified the mental health crisis, the health crisis in the US, which is where I’m based.
Learning to tend to ourselves first and be with each other when we’re in pain. Learning to move out of a stress response into an empowered place to make the best possible choices.
So much of what I see in the collective. Is V P R is the trauma triangle. It’s glorified on television, in media, this victim, perpetrator, or rescuer.
As we individually can step off of the trauma triangle to learn, to navigate our own intensity, our own pain, the things within ourselves that we don’t want to look, it makes us better able to look at what we see in other people that we’re not thrilled about, and to better be able to come together to make the world a better place for everyone.
A sustainable, loving, supportive environment for all people.
Take a gentle breath, if it feels good for you to let out a sigh or a sound with your exhale if you feel stressed in your body, gently moving, turning your head, rotating your wrists, moving your fingers, moving your hips, side to side, enlivening. your body with your breath.
As we learn to be with our own pain, whether it is pain from the past pain we are currently experiencing or fear of future pain, we become better able to be with and support others who are struggling.
As you are breathing, envision golden light in your heart center, swirling in your heart, enlivening your body, able to hold any human experience.
You’re able to love any human struggle.
Gently breathing in, gently breathing out.
Notice emotions. Notice mental thoughts. Notice physical sensations
As we move into deeper practice. I invite you to keep breathing gently, yet as deeply as you can. And moving into or closer to places that are challenging and then moving away into an area that feels more neutral or maybe even good.
For example, in this moment in my left sit bone, left hip, there is discomfort, physical discomfort. There is also a mental story attached to it from when I was injured. There are also emotions attached to this physical discomfort that I’m experiencing.
The tendency without practice is to get consumed by contraction, by the pain, by the mental, emotion, fear, or physical pain.
The practice is to be able to identify and notice the experience from the CEO self, from your higher self, from the observer.
There’s physical pain there. There’s a mental story connected and emotions, and as I move deeper into the contraction, it gets bigger. Then it moves up into my heart, all the way up into the left side of my head. My heart feels heavy. So instead of letting the contracted experience, the pain body take over, I move towards it but not too deep. I move closer to it. I breathe gently at the edges of it.
I hold the vision for healing life force to return to this physical, mental, emotional experience that I’m having.
Gentle breathing, awareness, noticing I’m breathing gently, yet as deeply as possible.
I’m allowing movement in my body so that I don’t get stuck in the contraction.
eExpansion, contraction, light, and dark, day and night, winter and summer. They are an expression of nature.
The parts of my experience that I don’t like aren’t bad or wrong. They are part of the experience that we chose in becoming human.
Shifting perception that pain is a problem, pain is an experience, gives you more power to make better choices, and to not collapse into pain or contraction.
Being able to breathe gently to notice, acknowledge, validate my experience without giving all my power to it, is where incredible transformation can happen.
Breathing gently and choosing what I want to experience. Breathing at the edges of the discomfort, bringing light and life into the contraction in my physical, mental, emotional.
Inhaling gently, exhaling softly.
If the practice gets too intense, then you are regulating yourself. You are choosing to move to a different area, whether that’s physical, mental, emotional.
I focus on the right side of my body where there’s greater freedom and ease. As I tune in energetically, it feels lighter.
My left hip, where I was focusing my attention feels heavier, denser, more solid, so I’m moving my awareness into and out of pain, contraction, tightness, heaviness to not make that wrong.
Making the experience of pain wrong fuels the power to stay stuck there.
Develop your ability to notice, acknowledge, validate your experience, shift your awareness to different parts of your experience and to use your power to choose.
What emotions do I feel now?
What emotions do I want to feel now in the intensity of a very difficult emotional experience?
it’s important not to gaslight yourself in saying, I feel fabulous if you don’t.
What do you want to feel?
I want to feel lighter. I want to feel greater freedom in my body, mind, heart, and a lot of people will say in speaking, wanting creates more wanting.
Listen to Ep 19 The Creative Power of your Desire for my perspective.
Movie from the deep contraction of pain and redirect your attention, your focus, your mental, emotional, physical power to shift towards what you want is an incredible transformation that happens little by little.
The ability to be with intensity, the ability to create a path in the present and into the future that is different than the automatic override of past pain or trauma.
Gentle practice of being with your own experience.
The more you can practice doing this with yourself, the easier it becomes to be with other people who are in an intense experience to be with rather than. Going back into the trauma triangle of trying to rescue someone.
Gentle breath, gentle awareness of your emotional experience, your emotional body, gentle awareness of your mental experience. And the way the patterns of the mind can hijack you into the past.
This practice is a pathway to create a different experience in the present and moving forward.
It is generally not going to be a quick fix. Where, poof, while your troubles are gone.
it is an invitation to shift the way you work with stress, pain, struggle, any of the less desirable or totally undesirable experiences that are part of being. When you’re able to see these experiences that we would rather not experience as part of being human, then we can use that experience to transform the present and the future.
Learn to use the experience of challenge to fuel creative projects in whatever form turns you on, whether that is through writing, speaking, touch, through connecting with family members or friends or in your business or your career.
When we take pain from being a problem and to acknowledge that it’s simply part of our experience and what can we do with.
With the challenging side of being human, how can that inform the present you are creating and the future you want to create?
If you are unfamiliar with my story, my work came out of iIntense physical, mental, emotional pain, and a desire to first heal myself, transform my own experience and my life, and to then be able to help others.
When I am struggling in an intense experience the most powerful thing that I do is ask myself how does this flavor of life force want to move in and through and as me?
As a creative, as an artist, as a healer a a human on the path of awakening my greatest potential t is essential, to acknowledge that pain is part of our experience.
What can I do with pain/challenge/struggle when it happens?
I deeply desire that it transforms my life and transforms the lives of the people close to me, and it transforms the future of humanity on earth.
Simple practices of being with your emotional experience, being with the mental story that you’re experiencing, NS being with your physical experience.
Find the invitation into greater expression of who you are and what you’re here to do.
This has been the most intense podcast episode I have created, and it’s so important because we’re in this intense time in the US in the middle of the winter holidays and so many people are struggling.
These practices of being with our own experience, being better able to be with others, to acknowledge the ways in which our culture is so dysfunctional and so many systems are hyper dysfunctional and bringing it back to how do I feel about pain?
How do I transform my experience in service to the greater good?
First acknowledging that it’s part of our human experience and then choosing how I handle it within myself and interact with others.
Transform pain into power by seeing it as life force energy that wants to move through me with a particular flavor to inspire certain actions in my life.
Life challenges can be incredibly healing to myself, those around me and all of humanity.
It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
For the first time ever in my coaching session I’m offering a single session, it’s called a Desire Session. The focus of the session is to discover why manifesting isn’t working for you and Access the Creative Power of Desire to Build your Pleasure-Led Legacy
It’s a one-to-one phone session includes: Pleasure Body Breath + Sensual Hypnosis + Akashic Recode + Recording. This is not a sales call, it’s the most exciting evolution of my work and I would love to share it with you. Book your: Desire Session
If you are interested to explore options to work with me please visit www.EmbodyyourLegacy.com to fill out an application.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please leave a review and follow on your favorite podcast app or visit www.EmbdoyWealthyPodcast.com/20
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul. I am sending you so much love!
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by Christel | Dec 12, 2022 | Podcast
Desire is a taboo topic in our culture, especially for women and the focus of this episode is to unlock your access to the power of the life force energy that is your desire.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for women and empaths to quit people-pleasing, reclaim power, and create a pleasure-led legacy without apology.
Desire and wanting are forbidden. Especially for women in a religious context, but then also in many of the new age spirituality and in some law of attraction teachings, desire and wanting have been hijacked and made into something to be avoided at all cost.
I want to speak about the trauma triangle for a moment because it plays into the dysfunctional power dynamics that make this possible for people to believe that desire and wanting are bad.
The very simplified version of the trauma triangle is there are three points in the triangle, three roles that you play in all dysfunctional relationships. You can be the victim, the perpetrator, or the rescuer. When you are engaging with somebody in this framework, those are the only three possibilities, and if somebody is playing a certain role, you can only choose from one of the other roles.
I call this VPR for short, victim, perpetrator, rescuer.
There are many people that use this framework and they use different words, but the meaning is the same in essence. So if you are wanting from a place of holding victim energy that you will never receive what you’re wanting. If you hold the belief t’s impossible for you, or wanting is bad, or desire is bad.
If you’re holding this place of being powerless, being the victim, then you can stay stuck in just wanting, in just holding desire without receiving what you are wanting.
The focus of this episode is to support you to move out of powerlessness in whatever form into a place of clear, empowered desire or wanting.
Some people say it’s one word or the other that’s okay to use and my perspective is it’s more the energetics of your desire or your wanting.
If you are approaching what you want or desire from a place of powerlessness, from believing that the only way you can receive this is if somebody saves you from the victim position on the triangle. You are likely to stay stuck.
When you step off of the trauma triangle and start engaging in relationships with yourself with other people and with your life in general, from an empowered place, empowered desire, empowered wanting, then you are tapping into the power to create.
You are tapping in to the energy of your life force.
To be able to create and receive what you desire. That is the focus that we’re looking at, is how do you step off of the trauma triangle into a place of power of believing that you can create what you desire.
You can create what you want, and most likely when you begin doing this, practice regularly and tapping into the fire of desire.
Desire is the fire of life force energy.
The desire to create something new in your life and maybe something new for the world and often what happens, especially with women, empaths and healers, is we have become afraid of our own power, perhaps even conditioned to shy away from our fire, from our power to create change for a variety of reasons.
There’s a lot of dysfunctional religious programming, programming in the spirituality, new age world law of attraction, and especially for what is traditionally seen as feminine arts, creativity, healing, intuition, connection with nature.
These things in our culture are seen as bad and wrong, so what we are focusing on today in order to giving you the key to unlock your ability to trust, your desire, to trust your power, to trust your wanting, your intuition. One small action and one. Step at a time.
I think the dominant narrative has intentionally shaped this fear to keep the majority of people feeling disempowered from being able to create the experience in our own lives and the collective that we desire.
I am here to change that, to give you the key so that you trust your fire, you trust your desire to make the world a better place, starting with your own life, believing that you being taken care of you, having the money, the support, the resources, the connections that you need, to have your needs more than taken care of so that then you can contribute to the greater good in whatever way lights you up.
From my experience, each one of us has a different focus, slightly different, sometimes radically different, but from my perspective and experience in this field for over 30 years, that everything will be taken care of.
If each one of us stands in our power, claims our desires, utilizes the life force energy of our fire to create change, that the world can be transformed in a short amount of time.
It begins with you. It begins with you who are listening to this right now.
You restoring your trust in yourself, you tapping into your desire to have a better life for yourself, for your family, and for the world.
I invite you to make yourself as comfortable as possible so that you can soften your body and move into a state of deeper relaxation.
Breathing into your heart center.
Fueling love, love inside of your own heart.
As the rest of your body relaxes, you are following my voice into a deeper state of consciousness, a deeper state of divine mind that gives you access to the truth of your soul.
And the truth of your soul is always looking for what is best for you and for the greater good.
Gentle breaths support you in going deeper and deeper into relaxation. Settling, settling. Settling and you find yourself in a cave deep in the earth and there is a fire burning in the cave, Creating the perfect temperature.
The flames and sparks weaving up into the air. You find yourself mesmerized and you hear from deep within the belly of the Earth, I trust you. I trust your power. I trust how life force moves through you and inspires you is completely unique to you.
What you want, what you desire is your gift to the world. That includes the things that seem beautiful and yes, also there is work to be done with your shadow desires.
The desires that you feel ashamed of. What do you want that you think is terrible? It is the movement of life force. It doesn’t necessarily need to be expressed as you see it or feel it. What you are beginning to understand now is the flow of life force.
When your mind grabs on to a desire, tries to control, contain, confine it, shape it into something that will be pleasing to others.
That reaction is part of what has gotten humanity to the point you are at. What you fear most if you dominate it, control it, contain it, confine it, use it for only your benefit somehow that will lead to awakening.
That is misguided life force energy.
Your practice with your desire. Is to sit at the fire with your desire, looking into the flames, looking into the flow of life force.
What do you have to teach me?
What is. That you are showing me about myself or humanity.
Desire isn’t always practical and linear.
Sometimes it is a beautiful metaphor and mind bending practice of going deeper. Desire can help you to process stress from this life and past lives. It can help you unlock the way that trauma and pain has become constricted in your body Mind. In your collective experience, life force energy, what if everything is an expression of life force energy when a desire arises that you feel resistant to or afraid of.
Look directly into the fire, look into it, and look deeper, feel deeper, look deeper than what you see on the surface.
Humanity is captivated by the superficial, by the stress response fight, flight, please or freeze.
Go deeper. Find the flow of life force.
Find the truth of your desire. When you go deep enough into desire, you will find your truth. You will find your core values. You will find what your soul came to earth to do.
So much time is spent not trusting, not believing, of only looking at the superficial surface and being afraid of that and turning away when the deeper layers, when the deepest truth is underneath a facade, go deeper.
What is your desire?
What is your wanting?
The bulk of humanity has bought into the belief that pleasure is bad. We won’t talk about why that is, because it is obvious where that belief is rooted. Who perpetuated that belief?
What if pleasure, what if the flow of life force, what if delight, enjoyment, full expression is the point?
What if pleasure is the point?
What if embodied experience of life on earth is the reason that you are here to find what delights you, excites you?
And lights your fire and oh yes.
There can easily be the discussion of addiction. What? About when the pursuit of pleasure goes too far. Ah, so much of what humanity is struggling with is a dysfunctional relationship with power is rooted in the trauma triangle. Victim, perpetrator, or rescuer, choose your role. These are the only three that are available. This is the dominant narrative on planet Earth, right?
Step off the trauma triangle, find what lights you up, what excites you, what fills you up, and gives you such great abundance that you can then do what’s most important to.
What if that is your gift to humanity?
What fuels your body, mind, heart, and aligns you with your soul Truth.
The place that humanity is struggling right now is with dysfunctional power dynamics.
Yyou only get to be the victim, the perpetrator, or the rescuer.
The way off the triangle, the trauma triangle of victim, perpetrator, or rescuer is to step off and create a new relationship with power.
Begin being aware of and mindful how you play out VPR by yourself, with yourself, and with those closest to you, and even with your desire.
“Desire is bad. Desire is forbidden. I can’t do that.”
What if you make room for the life force energy that moves through you, that is you.
What would you create if you weren’t limited by time or money?
You could create anything and everything you want. I believe that if you are here and listening to me, you will create a better world for humanity
I want you to be able to receive abundance, more abundance, wealth support than you can imagine to create a life of fullness of health, creativity, doing the projects that your soul longs to express.
Your life force energy is guiding you towards it, nudging you towards it. Perhaps you’re already in alignment and doing it in a way.
Ah, and in this moment, can you open more to the life force that is pulsing through you as.
I want to create a world of incredible collaboration and co-creation that is in service to embodied love and aligned with nature.
All humans are supported. With their health, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, which creates more life, more health, more beauty, and the ability to embrace and express the shadow. Yes. Yes, yes.
This can be challenging to see what will happen when humanity embraces the light and the shadow life and death part of embracing your life force energy.
Your desire is the lifecycle. Creation, maintenance and dissolution. There cannot only be creation. There is a time to maintain and a time for things to return back to life force. This is part of the fear of desire is the dissolution, the death part of the cycle, the letting go. It is an essential part of the cycle of nature and you are part of nature.
Hmm, and your desire is pure fire.
Practice with your desire, befriend your wanting.
Sit with your shadow, your fears, what holds you back.
Breathe, move, embody your humanity, which is both light and shadow, sun and moon, creation and destruction. You are a powerful creator and at some point this expression of your body mind will dissolve and return source life force energy.
How will you use your life force energy to create?
What will you create?
How gracefully can you let go?
Gently and slowly begin to take a deeper breath and liven your body with gentle movements, wiggling your fingers, your toes, your ankles, knees. Mm. Rocking your hips side to side.
Enlivening your body with your breath, bringing your awareness back into the physical room or space you are in.
Another fuller, deeper breath and slowly open your eyes, taking in the light, the color in your room, and weaving together the power of this session into your waking life.
You have the power to bring together your unconscious mind and your conscious mind to fuel the power of your desire to create what you want in your life and in the world.
It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
For the first time ever in my coaching session I’m offering a single session, it’s called a Desire Session. The focus of the session is to discover why manifesting isn’t working for you and Access the Creative Power of Desire to Build your Pleasure-Led Legacy
*It’s a one-to-one phone session includes: Pleasure Body Breath + Sensual Hypnosis + Akashic Recode + Recording*
Book a Desire Session
The exciting news for current clients, past clients or students or anyone who does ANY PAID session, class, workshop or program with you. You can receive a free Desire session by sending me an email or DM on instagram or Facebook. This special invitation is only available until January 17, 2023. This is not a sales call it’s the most extraordinary evolution of my work and I would honored to share it with you as my gift leading up to my birthday.
If you are interested to explore options to work with me please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
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I believe in you and the magic power of your soul. I am sending you so much love!
Thank you for listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for women and empaths to quit people-pleasing, reclaim power, and create a pleasure-led legacy without apology.
by Christel | Aug 28, 2022 | Podcast
A rebirth journey and healing for your inner child to surrender, to let go of control, and feel peace and rest.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and enjoy a pleasure-led legacy in service to love.
You might notice my voice is extra sultry this week. This episode is about surrender and was supposed to be recorded and published many days ago.
My journey has been into a deeper and deeper experience of surrender.
I know this podcast would be a transmission and healing experience of surrender that would benefit me and you. Yet the amount and depth of surrender… the consistent invitation to surrender this week has made it so that I will be more careful in selecting podcast topics in the future.
My adventure of surrender to prepare for this episode started when I saw, heard and felt the opening for the hypnosis journey for this episode as a physical transmission.
I could feel the journey changing me.
Then I invited on a four day overnight river trip where my invitation is to surrender, to receive to not be in control to not even know the plan.
I prefer solo adventures. This adventure is not possible without a guide, so I either trust, let go of control or don’t go on this adventure.
I love being in nature, and rivers are magical to me. I’m endlessly fascinated by the continuous flow of water. It’s a physical manifestation of power, flow, and unlimited abundance.
I know this adventure will stretch me and, of course, the answer is yes I want to go.
I make plans, clearing my schedule, ordering the supplies that I will need and preparing myself for this grand adventure of surrender, but in the meantime my allergy situation gets Out of control.
I lose my voice and can’t record because of extreme allergies.
I never spent a summer in the high desert in New Mexico near Santa Fe before.
The mountains are covered with wild flowers in very color, blooming everywhere. The vibrant green glow of life force covers the desert floor, it’s incredible.
My body thinks it’s a threat and has activated a hard core allergic response.
I surrender.
I’m preparing for the river trip of great surrender and on a parallel track I’m surrendering to the reality that I am not be well enough to go which now makes the surrender of going on the trip seem so easy.
I feel disappointed. I feel like I’m missing a lifetime opportunity.
I surrender.
I trust.
I slow down and listen.
The aspect of me that wants to push, to go, to make it happen is activated.
My body is overriding that drive, so while I thought this week is about preparing for a different surrender, my experience is more challenging than I imagined.
My mind knows that fighting surrender will only make the message louder and more intense, yet the fight stress response is pushing on me.
An invitation to surrender and surrender in ways that you may not expect.
Thank you for being here, it’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and enjoy a pleasure-led legacy in service to love.
You can access all episodes at https://www/desiresessionspodcast.com/18
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
by Christel | Aug 14, 2022 | Podcast
Sensual Hypnosis Journey for Integrative Healing of the Feminine and Masculine Essence Within.
This episode is best for a feminine woman that is seeking or has a male sexual partner.
I fully support diverse sexual and gender expression and orientation and offer one-to-one sensual hypnosis sessions that are created for your individual desires and preferences. https://christelarcucci.as.me/desire-session
by Christel | Aug 8, 2022 | Podcast
Sometimes my soul speaks in words I don’t understand.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and enjoy a pleasurable life aligned with nature and in service to love.
I listen closely. I follow the guidance that I feel in my body, deep in the bones of my being.
My mind second-guesses to coax me to conform and confine how I move, speak, breathe and be in the world because a part of me wants to fit in.
The truth of my soul is Love.
Love wants to be authentically expressed, which is often so far from fitting in.
Following the voice, My soul is tuning into my breath and my courageous heart to liberate the impulse for freedom.
I am curious about the power that lives in me.
The desire gaining strength within me every day, in every way.
With each passing year, the pressure is rising, the intensity increasing, and I can no longer resist.
When I resist, the darkness descends, and the heaviness tries to make sure that I don’t get out of bed. Oh yes, it tries to seduce me to hide instead of rise in power.
The fear and wanting to hide is so great.
My inner guidance say, “go ahead and hide, it’s the greatest game of hide and seek.”
When I am connected to freedom in my body-mind, I am the divine expression of expansion and contraction, concealment and revelation, creation and destruction.
When I play, I am curious, innocent, open.
Following my breath, I hear my soul more clearly.
I am more alive, connected, free, aligned and oh, it feels so good.
Deconstructing the programming which caused me to disconnect from who I am and what I want to do in the world.
Unraveling.
Untangling.
Unplugging.
And I feel the pulse of life in me, as me, as the One which is breathing, being and creating it all.
I am connected.
I am guided.
I am alive.
I am aligned with Love.
The courageous act of listening to my soul and taking action aligned with love, oh yes!
This is the feeling of devotion, dedication and commitment to the truth of my soul.
I am listening to the voice of my soul.
I am following your guidance, your play of expansion, contraction, concealment and revelation, of life and death.
I align with the truth of free will and enjoy this wild ride of playing hide and seek with my Divine self while being human.
I am expressing the power of my soul with one courageous breath and one step at a time.
Healing Web HypnoJourney
Thank you for being here. It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and enjoy a pleasurable life aligned with nature and in service to love.
You can access the all episodes of the podcast and any the goodies mentioned in this episode at desiresessionspodcast.com/#
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options, please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to co-creating with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
by Christel | Jul 31, 2022 | Podcast
Connect your infinite divine vision into your mission-driven ability to create wealth in service to love.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and create the pleasurable life you imagine aligned with the greater good.
Bring yourself fully into your body and physical location by feeling your feet on the floor, feel your hips and back touch the seat.
Open a heart space by moving you attention to your heart center and taking a slow and gentle breath. Activate the power of your body, mind, intuition by aligning your divine self with your human-animal self.
You stand at the top of the stone steps that will lead you down into the sacred grove of ancient Redwood trees. With each step powerfully bring our infinite creative self into your human body.
You now stand in the center of the circle of trees, feeling their power, presence, and wisdom.
You feel the earth beneath you, the sky above you, and you are the vehicle between the infinite and the manifest world.
You slowly take a seat in the soft and warm grass. Welcome yourself home into this moment with your full attention and your full presence.
Breath above, breath below, breath within, breath without.
command the wisdom, support, protection, and guidance of all of the soul lessons and wisdom you have learned before this moment and everything you have learned in the future.
Future and past are present here and now.
Invite the wisdom that resides within you, to gain greater clarity to serve humanity and make money with pleasurable ease.
How does your soul purpose manifests in your everyday Being?
Who are you when you are aligned with Love?
How do you create positive change with your everyday actions?
What are you doing when you’re aligned with Love?
Breathe in = guidance from your infinite self right in to your human self.
Breathe out = Love for yourself and all of humanity
You are connected to the big vision of embodied awakening.
Your desire to enjoy being of service, to feel the pleasures of a rich life are available, right here right now.
Focus on your breath.
Breathing in and receiving. Breathing out and giving.
Inhale receive. Exhale offer.
Being and doing are the dance of creating the life you desire.
Enjoying, engaging and co-creating with nature and aligned with love.
You are financially influential.
You guide the future with each choice you make.
You are creating a more powerful impact in the world as you increase your pleasurable wealth.
It’s important to have both the big vision, as well as the small steps and actions that you can take today to create your big vision.
As a visionary, you recognize that there will be challenges along the way and you see yourself navigating them with ease.
When you feel resistance you pause breathe and ask for support and guidance to move back into flow state.
You take small steps and quantum leaps aligned with nature and in service to love.
You are manifesting your soul vision.
You are present with what is right in front of you to do right now.
You are steady, courageous and grounded in who you are and what you are here to do that only you can do.
Your soul vision is an amazing Castle in the Sky. The small actions that you take every day are small stepping stones that are leading you to your soul rich life.
What actions are you taking today to set those stepping stones?
Who are you being as you are doing?
I believe you have incredible capacity to create change. I am here to support you in solidifying pleasure practices and structure for your business to create transformational change in the world.
You are weaving together your infinite vision + your mission driven ability to create money.
The big dream of what change you would like to see in the world, as well as increasing your relationship with money.
Easily dissolving any disconnect between your creator self and your human self.
Now working in harmony, now co-creating and collaborating your soul magic,
Money is a vehicle in our world.
Some people in power are using money for things that are out of alignment with nature.
You are building your life and businesses in alignment with nature and in service to love.
You are soul powerful.
You are creating changes like preserving the environment, reforming the justice system, changing the education system, transforming health care.
You are creating change in the ways that you believe are important and powerful in the world today.
You being and doing are pleasure powered.
You have an empowered, healthy and secure relationship with money.
You create powerful change when you collaborate with like-minded others with a similar vision.
Connect your big vision with your ability to create money in alignment with love.
You’re financially free, supported you feel good about money coming into your business at an exponential rate.
You feel good about spending money in your business.
You feel good about the choices that you make in spending, investing and donating money.
Take time when you return from the sacred grove to journal about the soul guided steps you received and desire to take now and in the future.
You stand up slowly full of gratitude to everything, and everyone that contributed to your journey today.
As you walk up this stone steps and move into our everyday reality. You’re weaving the web of the powerful aspects of your spiritual and creative self into your everyday life.
And so it is.
Thank you for being here, it’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to create millions, embody wealthy, and create the pleasurable life you imagine in service to love.
You can access the all episodes of the podcast at desiresessionspodcast.com/#15
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
by Christel | May 15, 2022 | Podcast
Healing the Mother Wound & My journey from being Motherless to feeling deeply and completely loved by the Great Mother.
*TRIGGER WARNING* includes my story of parental addiction, abuse and domestic violence.
I’m Christel Arcucci. You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to receive millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine aligned with the greater good.
If you are interested in working with me, please visit www.EmbodyYourLegacy.com to learn about upcoming programs and coaching opportunities.
Let’s begin with my intention. I’m sharing my journey of being motherless to illuminate why the foundation of my soul-work personally and professionally is to repair and integrate the wounded masculine and wounded feminine within in order to embody the divine union of masculine and feminine essence as your magic power in life, love and business.
I will read a self-guided soul retrieval that I wrote when I was 19 then go into a sensual hypnosis journey to help you heal the self abandonment, self sabotage, self attack, people-pleasing, over-giving tendencies of the Martyr mother archetype that can result from growing up in the dominant and dysfunctional culture and or growing up in a dysfunctional household with mental health issue such as addiction, neglect or abuse.
At the time of this recording in May 2022, I am 49.
The short story of my childhood is, both of my parents where alcoholics and my father got sober when I was 12. My mother’s alcoholism in her second marriage started as a dysfunctional relationship that quickly escalated into being abusive.
I asked for her help in managing the situation with my step-dad and she denied there was a problem.
I’ve been estranged from my mother since I was 14, after I moved out of her house and moved in with my father, who gave me a safe place to start a supported healing process.
My mother she and her family told me I was no longer her daughter. I was not their family.
This was an incredibly challenging time as I was becoming a young woman to have my mother tell me I was no longer her daughter.
I want you to know is that your story my story can be shared In so many ways and while there are many aspects of this writing that I would change now because now I tell a different story not because the facts of the event changed but because I feel so differently about losing my mother.
For many years, I felt devastated. I felt abandoned and betrayed that she chose him instead of me.
In my mid-30s, as I was beginning my public speaking career, I realized I had left. She choose to tell disown me as daughter, but I choose me by leaving a dysfunctional and abusive environment with parents that were mentally ill. My mother and stepfather were drinking too much The situation went from bad to worse after I left and she ended up getting beaten up many times, with broken ribs and hospital visits and at one point she was sleeping with a gun under her pillow on the couch in order to protect herself from her husband.
When I would tell people I was estranged from my mother but they would tell me I needed to repair and restore the relationship or I would regret it. For many years, I let people project their issues onto me and judge my choices. I let them shame me, make me feel like a terrible daughter, and wrong for a choice that I knew was best for me.
Clear boundaries with dysfunctional and mentally ill people as a way of choosing my health in order to do the inner healing needed to create a secure attachment with myself and others in my life.
Healing the Mother Wound & Father Wound supports each person to dance with masculine and feminine essence you are created from.
They often correlate feminine and masculine energies only with gender. This exploration has nothing to do with how you express the dynamic dance of masculine and feminine in your body and life.
My intention is to inspire you to reclaim your power and create and maintain clear boundaries with yourself and others. End the cycles of self neglect, self abandonment, self sabotage, self attack, stop people-pleasing, and over-giving by exploring re-parenting from the Divine Mother and Divine Father with inner archetype healing.
It’s time to create a secure, healthy, loving relationship with yourself and others.
Now for the soul retrieval writing and into the sensual hypnosis recode.
“Look at the child with a dream in her eyes, holding it deep inside her.”
Sarah McLachlan
Let us begin,
by cleansing the inner child,
tending to her broken heart.
Healing her broken spirit.
It’s time for a Rebirth
to become a child of the Earth.
I must not pretend for I know you see the moon before your eyes ah yes, the pain of childhood and the trauma of life.
The beginning, the opening, the slow of death in developing into who you really are.
I’m standing beside her with the childhood dress on. She’s holding my hand. She’s hard and as cold as stone, with only the warmth of blood to warm her skin.
The tears roll down my face. She looks straightforward. She seems not to hear nor feel the sobbing pounding in my heart.
She doesn’t notice the emotion or anything I feel.
Can’t she see, hear, or feel?
I’m calling out to her in desperate fear, “mother?”
Screaming for her help.
“Mother?!” but she doesn’t hear.
I tug on her hand and look up to her in despair, “mother?”
She does not dare to move. It’s like she’s frozen.
I wonder if there’s anyone alive in there.
I look around to see you so many of them not looking, not seeing, not feeling.
I’m not sure which…
What is really going on here?
I don’t understand this place called Earth. This life experiment of being human.
I feel. I see.
I know what’s behind your eyes, no matter how hard you may try not to let me.
I see you. I feel you.
I cannot pretend.
I will not pretend.
“Hey you! Can you hear me in there?” I call out in a fury. I cause a great commotion, waving my free arm, screaming and crying, but so many of them don’t even notice me.
There are a few who really see.
They see what’s behind my eyes, but as soon as they do, they look away and pretend they never saw me…
Oh the pain, who are these people and why don’t they listen or help or heal?
They are completely foreign to me. In my fury, I realize I am a child and the entire world believes this woman should take care of me. I cannot escape……yet! And I cannot give myself everything I need.
As the years pass, I stand beside her, holding her hand.
I am as hard as and cold as stone.
My face shows no emotion.
My eyes show nothing but distance.
Only my heart will burn inside of me, waiting for the day I will be free.
Slowly, her grip will loosen.
I lie in bed at night in the shadows with only my teddy bear to soothe my heart. And I silently cry myself to sleep with James pulled close to me, “One day James, we will be free somewhere out there where none of them can find us.”
The years passed on and now I stand upon the Mountain, the winds whip around me, the moon shines down upon me and my hands are FREE!
I remember that child with the dream in her eyes and I raise my hands to the Heavens and my heart weeps, the tears stream down my face and I whisper, “Mother….”
“Yes, dear child. What do you need?” I hear her reply.
My soul is restored.
I fall to my knees and I hold my hands over my heart and I feel the first sputtered breaths of life.
The hands of the earth hold me, caress me, feel me, love me and heal my body with her healing love.
I feel the power and light rise and the tears of joy release.
Now I shall walk again and fly beyond the limits of mind.
The sun warms my back, so I turn to feel the warmth of the sun on my face.
I shift my body and feel what it holds and become ready to dance through this life.
Now that I realize I am home.
Mother Earth has been there loving me all along.
She is always holding me, guiding me, healing me, feeling me, feeding me, loving me and mothering me.
Thank you Mother.
Jai Ma.
(Sensual Hypnosis not included in transcription)
Thank you for being here. It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast. The lightning path for world-changing women to receive millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine in service to love.
You can access the all episodes of the podcast and all the goodies mentioned in this episode at www.desiresessionspodcast.com/14
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options, please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit www.desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
by Christel | Apr 8, 2022 | Podcast
I remember you, we’ve met before in another time and place and we’re meeting here and now for a make millions recode in order to access your desire and amplify your creative soul fire, here and now.
I’m Christel Arcucci, you’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast, the lightning path for world-changing women to make millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine in aligned with the greater good.
If you are interested to explore working with me please visit www.EmbodyYourLegacy.com to learn about upcoming programs and mentorship opportunities.
Today’s session is a make millions Akashic recode. It is incredibly rare in our world that a woman owned business makes $1 million a year and I am here to change that.
This session is a combination of erotic vocal alchemy, hypnosis and an Akashic recode integrating the power of word, breath and sound.
I invite you to make yourself luxuriously comfortable and as supported as possible.
Let your breath move without any effort as if you are being breathed.
Breath moving in.
Breath moving out.
Inhale and exhale.
No effort.
No struggle.
No time.
Simply being in this moment, following the sound of my voice guiding you deeper and deeper into your body, into your breath, into your soul desire.
Your mind may jump up and down and try to make you run in circles if that happens, just notice the wild monkey mind playing its games. Notice its energy it’s movement and simply observe and continue to feel your body being breathed.
Inhale and Exhale.
Receiving and releasing.
Inhale and exhale.
Receiving and centering.
Here and now.
Yes. Now, that you’re more present in your experience.
Now that you are more familiar with my voice.
Now that you are trusting your higher guidance and wisdom to support the unfolding of your impossible dreams.
They’re not so impossible, in fact they were given to you those wild dreams of what seems impossible.
Yes yes yes, you are feeling and knowing that more is possible now than ever.
One simple breath at the time you can fuel those streams bring them into being.
Watering the seeds of your desire one breath and a time.
Receiving and releasing.
Non-linear and spiral your circle swerve and circulate your vital energy, your will, your life force fueling your dreams, fueling your creative projects.
Fueling your vision of the world and what you would like it to be.
You are given these visions for a reason. You are given these desires to play with.
Playing with your desire.
Playing with the energy whether it feels like paint on your fingertips or oil you are smoothing onto your skin or sandpaper smoothing down a wood object.
Creative desire. Soul power fueled by your willingness to be in flow with the future you want to create through now.
Here and now.
This body, this breath, this moment, this opportunity.
Any resistance to playing in the game money, wealth, luxury, affluence moving out with the exhale like tiny specs of sand integrating into the great infinite ocean of consciousness.
Given back to source.
Believing here and now in the possibility of creating your desire, of allowing life force energy to fuel your desire, allowing money and resources to come into your life, your bank accounts, your business, fueling your creative desire.
Fueling your will to create in-service to the greater good and in service to love and truth.
Those wild visions?
Yes yes yes, your wild divisions taking aligned actions each day to create new opportunities, new collaborations, new connections.
Your life is your greatest masterpiece, your passion is yours to express and explore.
Your power, your pleasure are becoming more aligned, more awaken and in-service to human embodied awakening.
Divinity and humanity dancing together.
Light and dark.
Sun and moon.
Winter, spring, summer and autumn.
Cycling, circling, creating awakening, awakening, awakening.
Here and now.
The channel of receiving is open.
The channel of offering is open.
In your body receiving, from your body offering.
From a place of fullness and abundance you are offering.
Open to receiving what turns you on.
Open to receiving what lights you up.
Learning to receive.
Receive challenges life offers.
Noticing the opportunity to play with the challenges life offers. Knowing that your life, your experience is your medicine, your soul desire to explore being human in this life.
You are opening, perhaps wildly, perhaps slowly, whatever pace you need.
You are opening to receive-receive-receive-millions-millions-millions just as easily as you’re breathing in and breathing out.
Receiving and offering.
Receiving and releasing.
Rising and falling.
Day and night.
So easy and sometimes even in the struggle you find yourself laughing knowing it’s another opportunity to play in this while the mess called human life.
oh yes oh yes oh yes sometimes it is so fun to be the hot mess.
You find yourself easily much more easily excepting the wide variety of characters you play even those forbidden aspects and parts of yourself that you wish didn’t exist in the past.
Now you know how to play the game: yes and.
Yes and.
Yes and what will you create?
Yes and what is this invitation?
Yes and what is this madness?
This earth school experience?
It’s so much easier to experience delight in it now, isn’t it?
To make so much money that you can create all of your wildest fantasies, you also know that money is not the only answer.
Millions of opportunities.
Millions of resources.
A global network of world-changing humans working together.
A global network of world-changing humans collaborating, connecting, co-creating together.
Oh yes, so good so delicious and sometimes dangerous to that old status quo.
Sometimes it’s so fun to wildly imagine that even more is possible.
Receiving and offering.
Make millions.
Access your desire.
Create a life that is even more than you could’ve ever Imagined. Creative life force activation, soul contacts, remembering, soul family reunion here and now connecting through time and space.
Opening, receiving, opening, offering.
Inhale and Exhale.
Opening and closing.
Clear boundaries are essential.
Accepting, receiving, acknowledging, appreciating.
It’s not always as it appears, yet demand in your own soul clarity to know the truth, to align with love and remember that love is the power to create and destroy.
Create and destroy.
Create, live and die is all part of the cycle.
Receiving and offering.
Receiving and releasing.
Destruction is an essential part of the cycle and the old way of destroying it’s no longer happening.
Fueling the creative fire aligned with love.
Fueling the creative fire in service to the greater good.
Inhale receiving, exhale releasing.
The mind knows no bounds.
The monkey mind, chasing your tail, how funny.
Receiving your millions.
Creating your millions.
Making millions.
So pleasurable, so effortless, so enjoyable such a great adventure, here and now.
And returning returning returning feeling your body sensing your breath, knowing your soul awakening unfolds even after our time together here.
I remember you.
I know you.
I believe in you.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for being here, it’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast, the lightning path for world-changing women to make millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine in service to love.
You can access the all episodes of the podcast and all the goodies mentioned in this episode at desiresessionspodcast.com/13
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
by Christel | Mar 31, 2022 | Podcast
Money is a loaded subject, oh yes! This episode is a public declaration of my purpose to embody wealthy as I guide and support world-changing women to make millions in service to love.
I’m Christel Arcucci, you’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast, the lightning path for world-changing women to make millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine in aligned with to the greater good.
If you are interested in exploring working with me, please visit www.EmbodyYourLegacy.com to learn about upcoming programs and coaching opportunities.
Welcome to today’s deep dive into pain and pleasure and how to use them to create the life you imagine.
You may have noticed the name of the podcast has changed from the sole purpose podcast to the embody wealthy podcast.
What does embody wealthy mean?
Embody wealthy focuses on awakening in and through your body, not by trying to transcend your body or the struggle and challenges of human experience.
Being human includes pain and pleasure, and an extreme spectrum of what it’s like to be human in this time in history. The challenges of being human and your pain body are the focus of shadow body integration. While your pleasure. Is the focus of pleasure body activation.
This podcast focuses on how you can use everything, yes everything, every experience, every ecstasy, every tragedy and everything in between as fuel for your creative fire to embody your version of wealthy.
First, that means you have to discover what embody wealthy looks and feels like for you and clear away the beliefs the trauma, the cultural indoctrination that keeps you from discover what you want, asking for what you want, and receiving what you want.
Discover. Ask. Receive.
Let me say that again since, especially for women, this golden trifecta will unlock the wealthy, health and great love you desire to create.
Discover what you want.
Ask for what you want.
Receive what you want.
What is shadow body integration and pleasure body activation?
Shadow body integration is learning to be with the intensity of experience that lives inside your body, mind, heart and soul. To deeply receive your experience while minimizing resistance.
Feeling is healing even if you don’t like it.
The world is really intense right now and the dominant cultural conditioning gives you a very narrow spectrum of what you “should” feel comfortable experiencing.
Shadow body integration is the practice of being where you are, sitting in the soup of your human-ness and skillfully navigate without trying to get rid of the mess or pretend it isn’t happening.
Shadow body integration offers tools to look your shadow and the collective shadow in the eyes and not turn away but instead to use the intensity of shadow, pain, challenges and problems in your life and in the world as fuel for your creative soul fire.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, women often have limited a very capacity to experience pleasure like it’s this forbidden taboo. Oh, that’s right, it is in many traditions taboo for a woman to experience pleasure, especially in her body, her sensuality and sexuality.
For a woman, it’s a sacred act of rebellion to know what you desire, ask for what you desire, and receive what you desire.
Not from the boss-bade wounded masculine burnout mode of overdrive and overwhelm, but from a deep connected space of knowing and integrating your feminine essence aligned with your inner masculine presence and protection.
Practice increasing your capacity to know what turns you on, ask for what lights you up and then delight in receiving your desire.
Shadow body integration and pleasure body activation are two wings of the bird dependent upon each other to soar through embodying your version of great love, vibrant health, and abundant wealth in order to create the life you imagine in service to love.
A key element to reset is that you do not have to sacrifice, compromise or play small or believe the dominant program and cultural conditioning that you are not good enough, not worthy and don’t deserve tot thrive and enjoy your life.
You deserve to create the wealth, health and love you imagine and even more than you can imagine.
Embody wealthy is not a Pollyanna version of you can have it all with no Issues in life.
The focus is being able to navigate the messiness of being human, riding the energies of fucking chaos of what’s happening in the world now and learning to use it all to fuel your creative fire to light you up.
Stop resisting challenges.
Skillfully surf the waves, ride the chaos, weather the storm.
You are the waves, chaos, and storm.
Be the woman that is a living embodiment of your pleasurable purpose.
How can you Embody Wealthy today? No matter what the reasons are that your mind says you cannot, you’re not ready. You don’t deserve it. It’s dangerous. You don’t make enough money. You are not skinny enough, curvy enough, smart enough, young enough, old enough. Grew up in the wrong side of town, didn’t go to the right school or get the right job.
Blah Blah Blah.
Take gentle breath, place your hand on your heart and the other on your belly and say:
I believe in you. I love you. I know what you’ve been through and I know what you’re capable of. In this moment, I take back my pleasure power and live in alignment with my values.
I take daily actions aligned in service to love.
What does making millions have to do with it?
Why does this have to be about money?
I have been a spiritual practitioner since my near death experience (NDE) at 6 months old and took part in many spiritual communities for over 35 years.
The dominant paradigm of spirituality and money being incompatible and not allowed to be discussed in the same sentence is insane!
I am here to transform the myth that money is not spiritual because I believe that when you align your spiritual values with your soul purpose, speak your truth with love power, that money can transform what’s fucked up about humanity.
You may wonder why I am making this public declaration and how close I am to making $1 million in a year.
I have never made $1 million in one year and never cared much bout becoming a millionaire.
I have sold millions in products and services in my career.
I’ve helped women make millions and become millionaires and I’ve helped businesses make Millions.
Yet I was telling myself a story that my business wasn’t good enough because mentors I have worked with have been in business less than half the time I have or even less than 10 year and THEY are making $10M per year or even $6M in 2 months. So why would any own hire me instead of them?
BOOM
I saw the core issue that many of my clients struggle with: not being good enough + being stuck in the persecution story that I will be killed/burned at the stake or cast out for speaking my truth of wanting to create a global network of soul-centered women millionaires.
I have never made $1 million in one year, so why am I declaring this so publicly?
Making millions in one year is an outrageous intention and making it public and not being afraid of failing.
My intention for sharing this is to show being a woman that is unapologetically discovering my desire, claiming my desire and reaching my desire of a million dollar per year business.
I am also not attached to this happening in 2022, although I am taking daily aligned action to create the systems and structure aligned with my soul in order for this to happen.
No matter what happens, I am creating the impact I desire and getting out of my own way and transforming the soul blocks that are slowing me down from my mission to help 100,000 women make millions in service to love.
If I do if I do not reach $1 million in a year, I’m still gonna fucking celebrate!
I’m going to celebrate that I claim my desire and shared the journey to inspire you.
I will make $1 million in one year. I’m taking action in alignment with my desire and I am open to receive $1M per year.
I can feel the path and momentum that my desire is creating, and I’m inviting you to join me with your own outrageous desire.
The reality of me making $1 million per year in my business means helping a lot of other women make millions, which is a win-win for the greater good.
It’s impossible for me to fail since the intention of doing business in service to love will reward me with more than I can even imagine.
I know, without a doubt, my business will generate millions per year.
I feel it. I know it. And so it is.
What if I fail in my make millions experiment?
What if you could change your mind about rejection and failure being a good thing in your life?
Here’s your invitation to build resilience through a rejection and failure practice.
What the what? did I say rejection and failure practice?
Yes, I did.
What that means is that you practice extending yourself beyond your comfort zone daily and actively keep asking until you find for the edge where people will say no.
This isn’t about badgering people until they say no, it’s about taking risks and asking bigger, more life-changing questions and removing your fear of rejection and failure.
I know this is a stretch because most of you have decided that rejection and failure are a bad thing to be avoided at all costs.
I want you to see feel and know how rejection and failure are essential to your success.
When you were a kid, you were more willing to fail when we learned something new: walking, talking, eating, writing, and riding a bike.
When you’re learning to walk, you fall down hundreds of times before you can walk across the room and the same thing was true with running or riding a bike. You will fail and to practice playfully expanding your abilities until you mastered a new skill.
Think about eating on your own… you can food all over the place and felt like a massive success when you got a single bit in your mouth.
Let’s restore that same sense of innocence and play to your life and business now.
In childhood, you consistently played at the edge of your comfort zone.
But somewhere along the way you learned that rejection and failure should be avoided.
How can you change your mind and decide that rejection and failure are practices to work on every day in order to expand your comfort zone and expand your capacity?
When you reach the end of your comfort zone and keep going, you discover the rejection and failure are actually a positive since they help you to become the best version of yourself. They guide you to achieve your dreams and goals and create success in your life on your terms.
I invite you to make rejection and failure a daily practice.
Building your failure and rejection muscles is like building any muscles. You work on them in small doses, a few reps at a time and even once they are strong, you keep training them to maintain your strength.
Posting on social media is one level of challenge. Yet a bigger, harder challenge comes when you reached out to someone, you know, in real life and they don’t even reply how much your mind will make up stories about what that means. I’m broken. I’m unlovable. I’m not important. And nobody cares about me.
Boo hoo. Poor me.
Ouch!
Your mind will make up stories about what that means: “I am broken, I am unlovable, I am not important, and nobody cares about me. Boo how, poor me.”
The rejection and failure practice is focused on extending out from the heart and not being attached to the outcome or response, which is not easy, yet the more you practice the easier it becomes.
When you are clear about the kinds of connections you want to create and why, it becomes easier it is to let go of attachment to the outcome.
When you extend beyond your comfort zone knowing that you are building the rejection and failure muscles, which will serve and support your life and purpose.
When you can change your mind about rejection and failure, you will create success with ease and grace.
Become willing to fail.
Change your story about rejection and failure.
Make being rejected a daily practice.
Make it playful.
Refuse to let the results take you down.
You can change your mind and change your life by reaching the edge of your capacity and comfort zone to keep going.
Just like building any muscle when you regularly do the rejection and failure practice and refuse to collapse or fall into the downward spiral, you will confidently expand your capacity and confidence and become unstoppable.
Build your capacity and strength in order to create success.
Once you’re done with this practice for a period of time, you will be more confident and have greater courage in taking bigger risks, reaching for bigger goals and therefore unfazed by rejection and failure.
Fear of rejection and failure will no longer stop you or keep you playing small in your life
Thank you for being here. It’s a pleasure to co-create and embody wealthy with you.
You’re listening to the Embody Wealthy Podcast, the lightning path for world-changing women to make millions, embody wealthy, and create the life you imagine in service to love.
You can access the all episodes of the podcast and all the goodies mentioned in this episode at desiresessionspodcast.com/12
If you are interested to explore embody wealthy mentorship options, please visit www.embodyyourlegacy.com to fill out an application.
I believe in you and the magic power of your soul.
For more revolutionary teachings and tools please follow on your favorite podcast app or visit desiresessionspodcast.com I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
I am sending you so much love!
